Superficiality
Saturday, April 4, 2009
5:06 AM
More often than not, we come to a point in life where we stare down the grotesque, gaping maw of overly superficial and shallow people. People who are self-righteous, ignoring all others' opinions, judgements and perceptions. Honestly, these people are no better than a feral dog frothing at the mouth, defending its territory.
I do not claim that I'm not self-righteous at times, but the world as I see it at this point in time so severely lacks even the slightest bit of common sense and empathy.
Instead of simply arguing through your ass, perhaps try to understand the two sides to a story and read the book from prologue to epilogue, and then back again.
I'm infuriated at the worlds' mere incompetence when it comes to dealing with confrontations between people.
No - I'm infuriated at a particular blogger's method of intercession in recent matters, despite it not being even the slightest bit affiliated to her.
Namely: Xiaxue, or Wendy Cheng, as some people call her.
I will not lower myself to her level, where she would simply and mindlessly bombard you with "
fuck you"s, "
fuck off"s and "
grow-the-fuck-up"s, which is far from a valid argument or even close to a means of expressing your point and distaste in a matter.
In my email, I had never mentioned that the information within was of any importance to the reader, but I plead for her attention and understanding in what I was putting forth. I even mentioned it twice.
Once in the beginning, another in the end.
I cannot understand what continuously slighting someone with offensive terms can accomplish, but apparently, Xiaxue believes that it will alleviate the problem because that was all she seemed to be doing.
Instead of blogging like a sane, sympathetic person, who can show the minutest understanding of what the word "love" or "relationship", Xiaxue is only capable of rattling on and on with what's 'wrong with the world' and continuously complaining about things that 'could be better'.
If she insists on complaining so much about everything that's wrong with the world, maybe she should stop Photoshopping her pictures and take a look at herself and realize that hey - she's not that damned perfect after all.
For someone whose life revolves around clubbing, superficiality, sex and complete and utter frivolity, I doubt she can even scarcely grasp the whole concept of empathy and love, and that it's not as simple as it seems.
By the number of fans she gets on her site compared to the number of people that have the sufficiently-zealous audacity to pen down their disgust of how she lives her life on her very own blog, we can really see how many people truly appreciate and understand life and how it shouldn't be lived.
Maybe, just maybe, the only 'slut' or 'diseased slut' here, is
you.
Signed,
Isaac
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Hi! I'm being a busybody now because Shuyin forwarded me the emails and I wanna give my opinions too!!
Everyone is giving theirs in long essays so why not!
Here's my astute POV after hearing everything and also bothering to read everyone's blogs and emails.
1) Stop accusing my best friend of leaving dumbass tags on the slut's blog. She didn't do it! Perhaps Daryl did it so that he can play the hero! Won't that be a double twist?!?!
2) Marie is a slut and a self-righteous one at that!
Weeeeeeeee!3) If the slut was so upset about breaking up with Eugene then why did she do it? Siao ding dong. If you don't make any sense, don't expect people to understand you and your supposed traumatic experience.
4) Shuyin can call Marie a slut if she wants to (not promiscuous, she didn't say that). She does not need to give a shit about Marie's feelings AT ALL since Marie clearly did not give a shit about Eugene's. Tomorrow she can call Marie a whore, and the day after, a diseased whore... donkey fucker etc... Doesn't matter and don't need to justify herself and don't even need to apologize! Oh you are HURT, Marie? I am so sorry,
grow the fuck up. Why do you care if someone calls you a slut if you are not?
5) Isaac:
"I have met Daryl myself, and I honestly think that he isn't such a bad guy, and Marie sincerely likes him." Nobody on Eugene's camp gives a flying fuck what YOU think of Daryl and whether the slut sincerely or unsincerely likes him. Oh is Daryl very nice now? DON'T GIVE A FUCK.
6)
"Marie has suffered as much as Eugene from this breakup" YOU GOTTA BE KIDDING. One of them is happily in love! Just saying. Or maybe one of them loves playing the victim and acting very traumatized in front of everyone? Cannot help her if she is so emo leh.
7) "Please take some time to understand and absorb everything that I have written, because it's rather important."
WHY? Why should ANYONE bother about what you have to say? It is rather important? Really? Like Shuyin should take time to understand and absorb your info, because if she doesn't, she might drop dead and die? Your speech is important to YOU maybe, since you clearly spent time writing it. But make no mistake: It is important to nobody else. (Except maybe the slut) Stop acting so bloody moralistic. Wooo blah blah listen to me what I say is sooooooooooo important. *Roll eyes*
8) I look down terribly on people who delete their blogs. Just saying!
So how? Astute not? I also think so!
Well have a good day y'all!
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